Dawson, you have been the perfect completion to our family! Your grin, your silliness, your energy--all endearing qualities. We love to watch you start dancing as soon as you hear music. We love your sense of humor that has really emerged lately. We love seeing you hug your siblings and do everything to try to be like them. You are definitely in a "trying" stage, testing your boundaries to see what Daddy and I will do. But we know you will soon learn your limits and become a bit more compliant! Your sweet and funny personality is really starting to form and we love it! Happy Birthday, Daw Daw! We love you so much!!!
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Dawson Turns Two!!!
Thursday, April 9th was Dawson's 2nd birthday! We had a little party at our church and he really had a lot of fun!
We rented the Butterball Express, and it was kept busy the whole hour making laps around the church!
Even Charlie (5th grade!) can have fun at a 2 year old's birthday party!
Kellen & Dawson riding together.
Anna Joy, Susannah & Peyton in the caboose. Aren't they cute?
Owen was giving me the thumbs up, so Dawson tried to do it, too!
Carson & Emery LOVED the train! Neither of them wanted to get out when it was time for the train to leave. We also enjoyed watching Emery hugging and pulling Carson in close to her while they were riding!
Kate, Kellen & Bella---great 1st grade buddies! They're all in the same class together and are quite adorable!
Dawson loves "mou", his name for Mickey Mouse. Between watching Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, and just returning from Disneyland a couple weeks ago, it seemed fitting to have a Mickey Mouse theme. My good friend, Kelly Fowler, once again shared her equipment and expertise to help me make this (my second cake---Owen's fire truck one last summer was my first).
We bought this police car Crazy Coupe at the Twinkle Twinkle consignment sale last month, and gave it to Dawson for his birthday. He loves riding on these cars at Peyton & Owen's pre-school, so we knew it would be perfect. He does love it! He either says "ride" or "car" when he wants to play in it!
Monday, April 6, 2009
Finally--California Update!
So sorry for the delay. This is for all of you bugging me for CA pics! ;-) Had to dig myself out of piles of laundry, then made a list of all the pics I wanted to post (couldn't put all 325 on here!), then lost the list! Brian found it this morning, so here we go! The slideshow is posted below. I'm sure this will be a long post, but it's as much for my own memory and journaling sake as it is for your insight into our trip! ;-)
To back up a bit, we have some good friends who live in CA. They have visited us several times since we've lived in J'boro, but we've never made it out there. Several months ago, we were able to snag some plane tickets for $175 a piece! And to make things even better, the trip was 2 weeks before Dawson turned 2, so he still flew free. Plus, Disneyland was running an "everyone gets in for kids' price" promotion. So, fast forward to March, and here's a synopsis of our Spring Break.
Fri, 3/20: Flew out of Memphis, via Houston, to Ontario, CA. The kids love flying, so they were great. Peyton was the only one who still had a slight fever at this point, but demeanor was great, and that was the last of the kids' sickness. Thanks for your prayers! We got our rental van and drove to our friends' house in Simi Valley. It was late, so we crashed pretty quickly.
Sat., 3/21: Our friends' youngest daughter, Molly (7), had a softball game that morning. We played at the playground and watched her game. Then Cathy took the kids home for lunch and sent Brian and I out to eat at the famous In-n-Out Burger! Delish, and only $10.90 for both of us! After lunch, headed out to the beach for the rest of the day. We all had so much fun there! Our kids had never seen the beach or ocean (last time B & I went to Destin, I was prego with Kellen) It was a cool day so we didn't bring swimsuits, but we might as well have, because as the afternoon went on, they got more and more wet! Dawson didn't appreciate being plopped down in the cold water, so he opted to spend his time happily playing in the sand! A highlight of the day was watching a small group of dolphins swim up the coast, right in front of us! They were so close to the beach. It was awesome, and is one of the things the kids have talked most about!
Sun., 3/22: Cathy insisted that Brian and I take a day off by ourselves, so we headed out to Santa Monica. Ate at a great, fresh Mexican place, toured the shops at 3rd Street Promenade, and walked out on the Santa Monica Pier. The pier has been in lots of movies, so it was fun to see it. It was so incredibly windy that day--we were thankful for our sunglasses just to ward off the sand blowing in our faces! When we returned to Keith & Cathy's house we were treated to a performance that night of karaoke and various "talents" that the kids had been working on. They also went for a hike on the trails right by the house, played on the trampoline and overall just had a fun, relaxing day! Thanks for all your hospitality, Elliotts! The food and the company were great! We love you!
Mon., 3/23: Our day to head to Disneyland! And lo and behold, Brian wakes up with the stomach bug! Barely made the hour drive to Anaheim, and I begged for early check-in to our hotel. He made it up to the bed, and the kids and I headed off to do the parks! Kellen was our life-saver that day, as she had to push the double stroller all day! Since the parks are too big for me to walk around with my cane, I use my Roll-A-Bout (a non-motorized scooter), so I couldn't push the stroller, too. We chose to go to California Adventure that day (the other park besides Disneyland) and had an awesome time! Rode rides, watched a show at Playhouse Disney Live!, met Minnie Mouse, and watched the parade at the end of the day. It was a lot of work, but better than being in a small hotel room with a sick Daddy! One cute story: for two months, Owen has been saving various coins that he would find, and putting them in a little wallet. He kept saying he was saving it so he could ride rides at Disneyland. I think he had a total of about 86 cents by the time we left. Anyway, on our way to the park, he suddenly looks up at me with this horrified look and says "I forgot my wallet in Jonesboro!" I quickly assured him that Daddy & I would pay for his rides at Disneyland!
Tues., 3/24: Brian was feeling better this morning, but we did get our character breakfast buffet moved to Wed. since he didn't have a big appetite yet. Did the "Disneyland" park this day. I was very impressed at how many rides all of us could do together. I just wasn't sure how tall Dawson would have to be to "make it". And even for a lot of the more adventuresome rides, the cut-off was 40 inches, which Owen just barely made. We learned very quickly that Kellen & Owen are our adventurous ones, and Peyton is NOT! There were plenty of rides she liked, but not the roller coasters or really rough ones. While obviously I would prefer to be completely healed, the "Guest Assistance Pass" I received because of my disability was wonderful! We would walk up to a ride, see the sign that said 60 min. wait (or 75, or 90!), and we'd go up to the exit and get on the next ride! Was definitely wonderful not having to keep Dawson corralled in all those lines since you weren't allowed to take your stroller to wait in line. Soon after lunch, Peyton & Owen were begging for naps, and since Brian was still recovering, too, he took the younger three back to the hotel and they slept for about 3 hours! Kellen and I, meanwhile, had a blast riding all the rides we could! We also shopped for her souvenirs. Each child had $20 they could spend however they wanted to. Kellen bought 4 smaller things, and when Peyton and Owen spent their money the next day, they each picked out two items. Besides the autograph books that Brian and I bought for them, these were their only souvenirs. When Brian and the kids came back to meet us for dinner, we rode more rides and stayed through the nightly fireworks show that began at 9:30 p.m.
Wed., 3/25: Back to Disneyland for our buffet breakfast with Minnie & Friends. (We generally ate our hotel's continental breakfast each day, packed a lunch, and ate out somewhere for dinner.) It was delicious (good thing, since it was NOT cheap!), and the kids got many autographs and pictures for their autograph books. They come right around to the tables and hug the kids and spend time with them. Dawson wasn't a huge fan of this part, but he definitely got more comfortable as time went on. Then we hit the rides again and mid-afternoon I took Owen and Dawson back for naps (our hotel was right across the street from the park entrance, so easy to walk to and free parking at our hotel). Brian and the girls went back to California Adventure to do some of the bigger rides. They also saw the Playhouse Disney Live! show again, as well as a High School Musical 3 performance. We had planned to keep this a short day, so they came back to the hotel at dinner time and we loaded up in the rental van to go eat dinner in Anaheim. We had reservations for Buca di Beppo's, but then saw Red Robin! It's our family's favorite and we couldn't resist. It was a yummy dinner, plus it cost less and we got more food than our dinner the night before in Disneyland! After dinner we had time to hit the hotel pool and hot tub, which was a lot of fun.
Thurs., 3/26: Our last full day in California. Our friends, the Elliotts, who we had been visiting, came and joined us at Disneyland that day (it wasn't their spring break). So we had a blast with them, as we got to share our favorites, and they showed us some of their favs that we hadn't hit yet. Kellen decided she loved the Indiana Jones rides and all the "Mountains" (Splash, Thunder & Space). Peyton said Dumbo was her favorite and there's no telling how many times Owen rode the Matterhorn Bobsleds! After walking straight onto all the rides all day using my pass, Cathy commented that she never wants to go back to Disneyland without me! In the slide show below, be sure to look at the picture of the silhouettes we had made. I had read on a website that they were the best souvenir to get at Disney. For $9, you got two copies of your child's silhouette. These are free-hand-cut by an artist (ours had been at Disneyland doing this for 35 years!) She glanced up at the child's face 3 or 4 times throughout her cutting, and in less than 60 seconds, we had an amazing image of our child. They are gorgeous, and I can't rave enough about them. Love them!!! Anyway, we stayed at the park about 13 hours that day (minus Brian taking the boys back to the hotel for their nap) and got to see the fireworks one more time. The show is very elaborate. It's narrated, set to music, and since it's set behind the castle, they have colored lights on the castle that change with the music. Unfortunately, Molly was feeling sick right before they started, so the Elliotts had to head home for the day.
Fri., 3/27: Heading home. Our flight didn't leave until 11:30a.m., so we weren't rushed driving to the airport, returning the van, etc. Had a mechanical delay in Ontario, then weather delay in Houston, so we finally got home to J'boro at midnight!
Sat., 3/28: SLEEP IN! Brian, the boys and I all got up around 10 a.m.! Peyton a little before 11, and Kellen got up at 11:30 a.m. Needless-to-say, we were worn out, but had such great memories. It was a wonderful trip!
To back up a bit, we have some good friends who live in CA. They have visited us several times since we've lived in J'boro, but we've never made it out there. Several months ago, we were able to snag some plane tickets for $175 a piece! And to make things even better, the trip was 2 weeks before Dawson turned 2, so he still flew free. Plus, Disneyland was running an "everyone gets in for kids' price" promotion. So, fast forward to March, and here's a synopsis of our Spring Break.
Fri, 3/20: Flew out of Memphis, via Houston, to Ontario, CA. The kids love flying, so they were great. Peyton was the only one who still had a slight fever at this point, but demeanor was great, and that was the last of the kids' sickness. Thanks for your prayers! We got our rental van and drove to our friends' house in Simi Valley. It was late, so we crashed pretty quickly.
Sat., 3/21: Our friends' youngest daughter, Molly (7), had a softball game that morning. We played at the playground and watched her game. Then Cathy took the kids home for lunch and sent Brian and I out to eat at the famous In-n-Out Burger! Delish, and only $10.90 for both of us! After lunch, headed out to the beach for the rest of the day. We all had so much fun there! Our kids had never seen the beach or ocean (last time B & I went to Destin, I was prego with Kellen) It was a cool day so we didn't bring swimsuits, but we might as well have, because as the afternoon went on, they got more and more wet! Dawson didn't appreciate being plopped down in the cold water, so he opted to spend his time happily playing in the sand! A highlight of the day was watching a small group of dolphins swim up the coast, right in front of us! They were so close to the beach. It was awesome, and is one of the things the kids have talked most about!
Sun., 3/22: Cathy insisted that Brian and I take a day off by ourselves, so we headed out to Santa Monica. Ate at a great, fresh Mexican place, toured the shops at 3rd Street Promenade, and walked out on the Santa Monica Pier. The pier has been in lots of movies, so it was fun to see it. It was so incredibly windy that day--we were thankful for our sunglasses just to ward off the sand blowing in our faces! When we returned to Keith & Cathy's house we were treated to a performance that night of karaoke and various "talents" that the kids had been working on. They also went for a hike on the trails right by the house, played on the trampoline and overall just had a fun, relaxing day! Thanks for all your hospitality, Elliotts! The food and the company were great! We love you!
Mon., 3/23: Our day to head to Disneyland! And lo and behold, Brian wakes up with the stomach bug! Barely made the hour drive to Anaheim, and I begged for early check-in to our hotel. He made it up to the bed, and the kids and I headed off to do the parks! Kellen was our life-saver that day, as she had to push the double stroller all day! Since the parks are too big for me to walk around with my cane, I use my Roll-A-Bout (a non-motorized scooter), so I couldn't push the stroller, too. We chose to go to California Adventure that day (the other park besides Disneyland) and had an awesome time! Rode rides, watched a show at Playhouse Disney Live!, met Minnie Mouse, and watched the parade at the end of the day. It was a lot of work, but better than being in a small hotel room with a sick Daddy! One cute story: for two months, Owen has been saving various coins that he would find, and putting them in a little wallet. He kept saying he was saving it so he could ride rides at Disneyland. I think he had a total of about 86 cents by the time we left. Anyway, on our way to the park, he suddenly looks up at me with this horrified look and says "I forgot my wallet in Jonesboro!" I quickly assured him that Daddy & I would pay for his rides at Disneyland!
Tues., 3/24: Brian was feeling better this morning, but we did get our character breakfast buffet moved to Wed. since he didn't have a big appetite yet. Did the "Disneyland" park this day. I was very impressed at how many rides all of us could do together. I just wasn't sure how tall Dawson would have to be to "make it". And even for a lot of the more adventuresome rides, the cut-off was 40 inches, which Owen just barely made. We learned very quickly that Kellen & Owen are our adventurous ones, and Peyton is NOT! There were plenty of rides she liked, but not the roller coasters or really rough ones. While obviously I would prefer to be completely healed, the "Guest Assistance Pass" I received because of my disability was wonderful! We would walk up to a ride, see the sign that said 60 min. wait (or 75, or 90!), and we'd go up to the exit and get on the next ride! Was definitely wonderful not having to keep Dawson corralled in all those lines since you weren't allowed to take your stroller to wait in line. Soon after lunch, Peyton & Owen were begging for naps, and since Brian was still recovering, too, he took the younger three back to the hotel and they slept for about 3 hours! Kellen and I, meanwhile, had a blast riding all the rides we could! We also shopped for her souvenirs. Each child had $20 they could spend however they wanted to. Kellen bought 4 smaller things, and when Peyton and Owen spent their money the next day, they each picked out two items. Besides the autograph books that Brian and I bought for them, these were their only souvenirs. When Brian and the kids came back to meet us for dinner, we rode more rides and stayed through the nightly fireworks show that began at 9:30 p.m.
Wed., 3/25: Back to Disneyland for our buffet breakfast with Minnie & Friends. (We generally ate our hotel's continental breakfast each day, packed a lunch, and ate out somewhere for dinner.) It was delicious (good thing, since it was NOT cheap!), and the kids got many autographs and pictures for their autograph books. They come right around to the tables and hug the kids and spend time with them. Dawson wasn't a huge fan of this part, but he definitely got more comfortable as time went on. Then we hit the rides again and mid-afternoon I took Owen and Dawson back for naps (our hotel was right across the street from the park entrance, so easy to walk to and free parking at our hotel). Brian and the girls went back to California Adventure to do some of the bigger rides. They also saw the Playhouse Disney Live! show again, as well as a High School Musical 3 performance. We had planned to keep this a short day, so they came back to the hotel at dinner time and we loaded up in the rental van to go eat dinner in Anaheim. We had reservations for Buca di Beppo's, but then saw Red Robin! It's our family's favorite and we couldn't resist. It was a yummy dinner, plus it cost less and we got more food than our dinner the night before in Disneyland! After dinner we had time to hit the hotel pool and hot tub, which was a lot of fun.
Thurs., 3/26: Our last full day in California. Our friends, the Elliotts, who we had been visiting, came and joined us at Disneyland that day (it wasn't their spring break). So we had a blast with them, as we got to share our favorites, and they showed us some of their favs that we hadn't hit yet. Kellen decided she loved the Indiana Jones rides and all the "Mountains" (Splash, Thunder & Space). Peyton said Dumbo was her favorite and there's no telling how many times Owen rode the Matterhorn Bobsleds! After walking straight onto all the rides all day using my pass, Cathy commented that she never wants to go back to Disneyland without me! In the slide show below, be sure to look at the picture of the silhouettes we had made. I had read on a website that they were the best souvenir to get at Disney. For $9, you got two copies of your child's silhouette. These are free-hand-cut by an artist (ours had been at Disneyland doing this for 35 years!) She glanced up at the child's face 3 or 4 times throughout her cutting, and in less than 60 seconds, we had an amazing image of our child. They are gorgeous, and I can't rave enough about them. Love them!!! Anyway, we stayed at the park about 13 hours that day (minus Brian taking the boys back to the hotel for their nap) and got to see the fireworks one more time. The show is very elaborate. It's narrated, set to music, and since it's set behind the castle, they have colored lights on the castle that change with the music. Unfortunately, Molly was feeling sick right before they started, so the Elliotts had to head home for the day.
Fri., 3/27: Heading home. Our flight didn't leave until 11:30a.m., so we weren't rushed driving to the airport, returning the van, etc. Had a mechanical delay in Ontario, then weather delay in Houston, so we finally got home to J'boro at midnight!
Sat., 3/28: SLEEP IN! Brian, the boys and I all got up around 10 a.m.! Peyton a little before 11, and Kellen got up at 11:30 a.m. Needless-to-say, we were worn out, but had such great memories. It was a wonderful trip!
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Update
Thanks for all the phone calls & e-mails to check in on the sick kiddos! Basically, we still need your prayers! Owen has improved from the flu diagnosis rather quickly, but Pate's fever is still hanging on, and she has complained today of a sore throat (and it IS red & swollen). So I had the doctor call in an antibiotic to cover that base as well! Hopefully she will perk up quickly now that she has that, too. I also have a sore throat and have lost my voice tonight. Others have the sniffles, but nothing worse than that, thankfully.
We're leaving in 12 hrs., and we're pretty well prepared, so I guess now we just need a good night's rest and a healthy family in the morning! We'll try to send greetings from sunny California in a few days!
We're leaving in 12 hrs., and we're pretty well prepared, so I guess now we just need a good night's rest and a healthy family in the morning! We'll try to send greetings from sunny California in a few days!
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Flu Meds = $$$!
Brian picked up the 4 Tamiflu meds on the way home from teaching at ASU tonight. Set us back a whopping $200! It was only slightly comforting to see "Your insurance saved you $89.99" on each label. And, what's even better, (note sarcasm), we have 2 bottles of meds per kid, and they're supposed to be kept refrigerated! Fun, fun, when you leave Jonesboro at 10:00 a.m. Friday and don't get to your destination for 14 more hours! Sheesh! I hope this isn't an indication of how this trip is going to go!
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Ugh....the flu!
I am so sorry to report that Peyton and Owen have the flu! (The real flu, not the stomach flu!) As the doctor put it, at least it's influenza B, which is treatable, but still! Ugh! So, they're on Tamiflu, and Kellen & Dawson are on preventative doses of Tamiflu. Their doc said Brian and I need to call our doctors for that preventative Tramiflu, too. In my 7+ years of parenting, not one child has ever had the flu! Some years we've gotten the flu shot, and some years we haven't. I've never been too concerned about it. We didn't get the shot this year, but it wouldn't have done any good anyway. They said the shot's only good for 3-4 months, so it would've worn off for a March flu, anyway.
And the kicker is, we fly out to California on Friday! Please pray we get well quickly!
And the kicker is, we fly out to California on Friday! Please pray we get well quickly!
Monday, March 16, 2009
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Our VIP
Sunday, March 1, 2009
March: In Like a Lion
Saturday, February 28, 2009
Tough Dog
Monday, February 23, 2009
Murder Mystery Solved!
I guess with all our birthdays and parties and such, I neglected to post about our Valentine's Day event. Our friends Robby & Kelly Fowler organized a murder mystery night! Brian and I had never done one before, so we didn't know what to expect, but it was lots of fun! We were notified of our "character" about a week before the event, then showed up and received little books that revealed more information about us and our fellow participants. Through dialogue with one another and listening to others' conversations, you eventually try to figure out "who dunnit". By the end of the evening, Lindy and Slade both correctly decided that it was Brian who committed the murder!
Chuck, a structural engineer; Slade, a professional football player, Brian, a major in the Air Force, and Robby, an archeologist.
Friday, February 20, 2009
Owen's rendition of a classic song
"Take Me Out to the Ballgame" is on one of our kids' CDs we listen to in the Suburban. So, last night at dinner, out of the blue, Owen busts out with his version:
"Take me out to the ballgame
Take me out to the crowd
There might be some crackers and Apple Jacks..."
At this point Brian and I burst out laughing, and the song stops. Wish we hadn't, so that we could hear some more interesting lyrics!
"Take me out to the ballgame
Take me out to the crowd
There might be some crackers and Apple Jacks..."
At this point Brian and I burst out laughing, and the song stops. Wish we hadn't, so that we could hear some more interesting lyrics!
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Forever Changed
Four years ago today, our lives were forever changed. For those of you who don't know the background story, Kellen, Peyton and I were in a horrific car accident, and I was 17 weeks pregnant with Owen. Brian was at work, and the girls and I were headed to Kennett, MO, to meet up half-way with Brian's parents so that they could take Kellen home with them for the weekend. It was 9 days after Kellen's 3rd birthday, and just a day after Peyton's 1st birthday. I was going 60 mph on a two lane highway when an oncoming flatbed semi truck made a left hand turn in front of us. I saw him coming, swerved to the right in hopes of skidding along side of him, but still impacted at the front driver's side corner of our Suburban.
Kellen and Peyton were screaming, of course, but thanks to God's protection, ended up being okay. They were terrified, though, being taken out of their car seats on backboards and with c-collars. Kellen complained of a sore back for a few days, but ultimately they came out unscathed.
Since I had been braking in hopes of avoiding the crash, my right foot took the brunt of the impact. I could tell right away something was drastically wrong, as my foot was hanging in an unnatural direction and I could actually see the end of my tibia. That's a memory that is forever burned into my mind. To make a long story short, I had other minor injuries, but the most pressing was that my foot was 90% amputated. An incomplete amputation, they called it. After jaws of life, an ambulance trip to the Kennett hospital, and then a life flight helicopter ride to Cape Girardeau, I went through surgery to reattach my foot, and then stayed there for five more days. Obviously my pregnancy was of huge concern during this time. The day of the accident, they actually were not able to find fetal heart tones, and then a day or two later I experienced some bleeding. But, Owen truly is our miracle baby, and we feel so blessed to have him in our lives!
The next four or five months are a blur, as I had more surgeries, we had various family living with us, people bringing meals, me trying to learn to use a wheelchair, then a walker, then a cane, and delivering a new baby in the midst of that! I truly have made huge progress in the last four years!
However, it has also "forever changed" our family. I grieve the fact that I can no longer be the type of Mom that I envisioned. I have always been athletic and active, and vowed not to be one of those Moms that sat on the side while the Dad did all the playing outside, coaching sports teams, rough-housing, etc. Even with two young daughters, we were forever going on walks after dinner, camping and hiking, traveling, etc. I hate that now my children only know a Mom that has to sit down all the time, can't go out and play with them, and often can't even go get them a drink of water or some other mundane task, due to being in pain. It's not fair to them.
Through all this, though, I have prayed that God would instill a sense of compassion in my children; an innate feeling of selflessness and caring; a heart for the disabled or people in need. They have been troopers, and at the same time, Brian and I have sacrificed a lot in order to try to maintain some "normalcy" in their lives despite my limitations. My sacrifices relate to my pain levels, and his sacrifices are all the extra work he has to do and the time he devotes to us!
Sometimes I still pray for God to reveal His reasons for all this, but even if we never know, I have faith that He will use this for good. Regardless of what happens, February 18th will be a date that our family will always remember!
Kellen and Peyton were screaming, of course, but thanks to God's protection, ended up being okay. They were terrified, though, being taken out of their car seats on backboards and with c-collars. Kellen complained of a sore back for a few days, but ultimately they came out unscathed.
Since I had been braking in hopes of avoiding the crash, my right foot took the brunt of the impact. I could tell right away something was drastically wrong, as my foot was hanging in an unnatural direction and I could actually see the end of my tibia. That's a memory that is forever burned into my mind. To make a long story short, I had other minor injuries, but the most pressing was that my foot was 90% amputated. An incomplete amputation, they called it. After jaws of life, an ambulance trip to the Kennett hospital, and then a life flight helicopter ride to Cape Girardeau, I went through surgery to reattach my foot, and then stayed there for five more days. Obviously my pregnancy was of huge concern during this time. The day of the accident, they actually were not able to find fetal heart tones, and then a day or two later I experienced some bleeding. But, Owen truly is our miracle baby, and we feel so blessed to have him in our lives!
The next four or five months are a blur, as I had more surgeries, we had various family living with us, people bringing meals, me trying to learn to use a wheelchair, then a walker, then a cane, and delivering a new baby in the midst of that! I truly have made huge progress in the last four years!
However, it has also "forever changed" our family. I grieve the fact that I can no longer be the type of Mom that I envisioned. I have always been athletic and active, and vowed not to be one of those Moms that sat on the side while the Dad did all the playing outside, coaching sports teams, rough-housing, etc. Even with two young daughters, we were forever going on walks after dinner, camping and hiking, traveling, etc. I hate that now my children only know a Mom that has to sit down all the time, can't go out and play with them, and often can't even go get them a drink of water or some other mundane task, due to being in pain. It's not fair to them.
Through all this, though, I have prayed that God would instill a sense of compassion in my children; an innate feeling of selflessness and caring; a heart for the disabled or people in need. They have been troopers, and at the same time, Brian and I have sacrificed a lot in order to try to maintain some "normalcy" in their lives despite my limitations. My sacrifices relate to my pain levels, and his sacrifices are all the extra work he has to do and the time he devotes to us!
Sometimes I still pray for God to reveal His reasons for all this, but even if we never know, I have faith that He will use this for good. Regardless of what happens, February 18th will be a date that our family will always remember!
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
"my whole hand"
We sure love you, Pate. You add such life to our family, and keep Daddy and I laughing. We often say "She's too cute for her own good!" We are proud of the great young lady you're becoming!
Monday, February 16, 2009
Birthday Girls!
Kellen & Peyton still wanted to have a joint birthday party this year, so that was nice for us! They chose to have it at Pump It Up, an inflatable/jumping playplace. They had some mutual friends from church, as well as buddies from each of their school classes attend. All the kids really seemed to have a great time, and they sure were exhausted tonight! Hard to believe our little girls are 7 & 5 years old now!
Layla & Peyton
Kate & Bella
Molly, Bella, Kate, Peyton & Kellen in the main jumping inflatable.
You have to be 2 yrs. old to jump, so Dawson and a few other rugrats just ran around the floor and played in this Cozy Coupe. Brian had to chase him off the jumping things quite a bit, but overall Dawson was happy and not too distressed that he couldn't participate!
Kellen & Clara
Peyton and Deanne
Kate, Kellen & Halee
Hope and Deanne
Joanna & Molly
Big, crazy group shot!
Kellen & Peyton with their ice cream cake. Just like last year, Kellen chose mint chocolate chip for her half, and Peyton chose cotton candy explosion for her flavor! I had also bought cheese ball puffs as a "salty" snack to put out on the tables during this time. Kellen has been begging me for about 3 years to buy this GIANT TUB of these things at Sam's Club but I've never had a reason to get such a huge quantity. Anyway, this was a good occasion to "give in" to her wishes, and seriously folks, these 25 kids ate almost the entire tub! It was pretty hilarious!
Friday, February 13, 2009
He ain't heavy, he's my brother!
So every night we go into the kids' rooms to check on them and do one last "cover-up" before we head to bed. The other night, we walked into the boys' room to find this situation!
The flash startled Dawson a little bit, but only enough to move his legs, not wake up and actually get off of Owen! And yes, we do zip up Dawson's p.j.'s---he did this himself, sometime after being put to bed!
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Landry Blair Roberts
Our First Baby is 7!
Monday, February 2, 2009
I just want to remember this....
Peyton and Owen are such great friends! They have been playing together for the last 5 hours and haven't fought, complained, or bothered me a bit! I love how they can be so imaginative together and make up all sorts of stories as they're playing "house". This morning, they were "Brian & Kelly" and Pate's baby doll was "Kellen Bailey". ;-) Or, if they're playing brother & sister (okay, maybe that's not very imaginative since they ARE brother and sister!), they usually say their parents died. Does anyone else hear their kids saying their parents died? I'm not sure what to think about that! Anyway, I'm thankful they get along and like playing with each other. Peyton and Owen are only 17 months apart, so I think that helps them get along. It also helps that Kellen is at school during the week, because when she's home, she and Peyton are usually off playing. I just needed to blog this so I can remember these days and remind them in the future!!!
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